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When your recovery reaches a place where you have given up toxic relationships, given up loving an available person, found a spiritual source of love, and learned to love yourself, then it may be time to start over. Here is a list of books that will help you. Feel free to contribute your own favorite book to this list.
A Fine Romance: The Passage of Courtship from Meeting to Marriage, by Judith Sills.
Finally Getting it Right; From Addictive Love to the Real Thing, by Howard M. Halpern
Keeping the Love You Find: A Single Person's Guide to Achieving Lasting Love, by Harville Hendrix
Receiving Love: Letting Yourself Be Loved Will Transform Your Relationship, by Harville Hendrix
Getting the Love You want: A Guide for Couples, by Harville Hendrix.
How to Stop Looking for Someone Perfect and Find Someone to Love, by Judith Sills.
From Fear to Love, by Ray and Nancy Kane.
He's Just Not That Into You: Your Daily Wake-Up Call, by Greg Behrendt & Liz Tuccillo. This handy little book has 273 daily tips and words of wisdom for female love addicts. It may help you stop fantasizing and face reality.
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|  | Re: Books About Healthy Relationships « Reply #1 on Jan 1, 2009, 9:00pm » | |
I have read "He's just not that into you" and a good one called "Why Men Love B-----s" They both have a powerful message of Self Love and self esteem, But I am left wondering if there really is such a thing as an Avoidant? According to these books." He's just not that into you'!!!! Help, Im so confused and also blaming myself for the my last relationship ending. Susan what do you think?
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|  | Re: Books About Healthy Relationships « Reply #2 on Jan 2, 2009, 1:24pm » | |
My comment . . .
http://laarecovery.proboards99.com/index....ove&thread=2152
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